Quote: I mean you all are always telling me to TAKE CARE OF ME . . to detach from him to not make myself reliant on him. Plan and simple . . if we move . . .I would be semi-reliant on him at leat for awhile.
Ok Emily, me personlly, when I say take care of YOU, I mean from an emotional standpoint. There are times when even the best of us are financially and in other ways semi or fully dependant on our spouses. That does NOT mean we have to be emotionally dependant, or codependant. You can move with him, live with him, and all that, and STILL learn to take care of YOURSELF when it comes to your happiness. That has nothing to do with your living situation or anything else.
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P.S. Did you get that part where I said ya done good last night?
