I would have my license by the time we moved. Point is . . . the only thing that he owns the stupid car. It's ONLY in his name. Therefore I can't touch it. It's his. . . if/when he decides to leave me . . . the ONLY thing that he owns goes with him. I would be left without a way to get around, LICENSE OR NOT.
I get that there programs for help . . BUT most of them ESPECIALLY in bigger areas have LONG waiting lists. I know because I've applied downstate and been told that there was a 6 month - 2 year WAITING list. So I can't imagine what that list would be like in the areas he wants to go to. SO . . . if I couldn't come up with rent money I would left with my TWO DAUGHTERS . . standing in the street without so much as a car to live out of. UNTIL I could get help from somewhere. I don't know ANYONE in any of the areas he wants to go to.
I understand that I could pick myself up from there. Point is . . I don't want my daughters to have to endure that type of hardship because of him. If I moved with him . . . he would be the one with a job and I would get one once there. Although it's still going to take 6 months to a year for me to finish my course for Vet Assisant. I get that they need them in Texas too . . but NOTHING garuntees me anything more than a job packing groceries at Wal-Mart.
I AM NOT KEEPING MYSELF DOWN. . . MY WHOLE POINT WAS THAT I DON'T WANT TO RELY ON HIM FOR ANYTHING EVER AGAIN. He won't put up his end of the bargain. So I guess my answer to him on the phone should have been, "HELL no . . I won't move anywhere with you . . because you're a lying sack of [censored]. I won't leave my apartment where I can pay for myself to live to have to rely on you for awhile."
After all when he kicked me out in December I was weeks away from moving out anyway. I asked him to give me that time to get my own place so that I could keep my job. He said no.
I've been through this before . . . I WILL NOT GO THROUGH IT AGAIN!!!
