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Amy . .
I understand completely what you are saying.
I know that I would have a job, because just like you said . . I am going to finish my schooling and get that extra diploma!
BUT . . . he's talking about moving to like Texas. Texas needs Veterinarian Assistants too. And who said your education has to stop there?
So . . .
I doubt that what I would be making in a job that I would have would cover all the rent and bills. You could cover enough to get the hell out if you have to...there are programs that would help you get started and then there's child support and half of everything he owns, too....should he decide to screw around again.
Besides I wouldn't have car. You sure don't have very high expectations for yourself do you Emily? How long will you go without a license? I'll tell ya what, he's not keeping you down NEAR as far as you seem to like BEING. The car we have now is totally in his name . . . as I imagine the next one will be too! BS! Not if it's YOUR car....and you are helping to pay for it, the maintenance, gas....
He makes sure that the bigger things we have are only in his name . . then I can't stake claim to them. Oh REALLLLY?
I would really be up $hit creek without a paddle. Yep. For as long as you expect him to go get it for you, you will.