To be fair, I would think, that if my W ever posted to this site, she would have a fairly different point of view than mine, and maybe she would contradict some of my posts. She may believe certain things, and would probably, upon reading my posts here, believe I was creating a character, thus not really telling the truth and the WHOLE truth. She would be wrong, but I can see how she would think that. I would think/hope if my W did come here, that there would be people whom I have helped over the last several months, and who have helped me, that would say much the same thing about me as Rere said about your H.
While I don't think HER attack on you was right, I also don't think your labeling her as someone to be avoided is correct either.
In any event, you are right, this is a place where we ALL hope to get support and I think you deserve it as much as the next person so I hope you and Rere can get past this and get to some real healing stuff instead of throwing barbs.
