Actually TTH, this is the kind of thing I was worried about with you, because there HAVE to be people here who supported/support your H's point of view and will take it no matter what, as fact.
For the record, I don't know WHAT the truth is, but when I was reading her post about how spiritual, honest and "wonderful" your H was during all this, I didn't need you to tell me that it was VERY possibly BS.
Rere, I am NOT calling YOU a liar but just because he helped you and SEEMED to be saying things that made sense does not mean TTH is lying now. IF he admitted to the affairs and IF he really bought those books, then I suspect you may have it wrong.
Now, here's the problem. Rere, you seem to be saying somehow that TTH is logged on here, lying about this sitch to, I guess, get back at her H? Why would she do that? She says they are trying to work things out. If he is a friend of yours, why not contact him and see if what she is saying is true. If he admitted it to his W, he surely will admit it to you now.
I just wish this marriage, like all the others on this site, to work out and I don't think all the he said/she said stuff helps, but what can you do when we now have two sides of the same story posted.
Rere, can't there be a dialog with TTH without accusing her of needing mental help just because she believes differently than you do about a man who exists, in the flesh, in her life?
