I am here to find help on how to save my marriage. I will not leave him! I just don't know how to get through this. How to get the mental images out of my head. We both want to work through this. I am here to get helpful advice from those here as well as counseling.

As far as I know, he is not seeing these OW anymore...he said that he quit when I agreed to start counseling. I am still watching for anything that doesn't seem right.

I did call my gyn today to ask what I should do to protect myself...they want me to go through the entire rash of STD tests! So I called him this morning to tell him that he needs to do the same! He wasn't very happy about it, but agreed.

Last edited by TryingtoHeal; 07/13/06 05:38 PM.