Another key point to mention here is that when we first talked about a separation, at his initiation, we layed down some ground rules about our social lives. We agreed to not see other people. If either of us got to the point where we wanted to see others, that we would have enough respect to let the other know before we actually dated. I kept my promise. I never even thought about it let alone put myself in a position to make a wrong decission that could jeopardize our marriage. He was signing up on singles/dating sites within a week of our separation...he had no intention of keeping his promise!
