I will update the sitch from the time we moved back in together. I have to say that our relationship has been better than it ever was before our separation. We have been making great progress with an outstanding C. I had suspicions about the affairs prior to moving back in together, but my H promised that they were mothing but friends...he was GALing...which if done the way you all suggested would have been heathy for him. Anyway, I believed what he told me...and also believed that working on our marriage was his only priority.
I won't go into exactly how I got all my evidence, but little things would come up that gave me an uneasy feeling in my gut...even though all along, I desperately wanted to believe him...I have never stopped loving him!
Over the past few days, I have been questioning him about things that didn't seem right...but he kept denying...he then admitted to making out and sexual touching (if you know what I mean), but swore on his salvation that he never had sex with them. I'm not stupid or as nieve as he must think, but I knew it was more than touching. Through my persistence, he finally admitted that he had been seriously involved with 2 OW...which he lied to initially telling them that we had divorced early last summer. He claims to have fessed up to the fact that he is still very married...but the affairs continued until he and I began counseling.
