My H's username is Tampaguy1961...I'm sure many will be familiar with him. I'm not here to trash him...just trying to understand and heal. I don't know if he knows I'm posting here or not...he hasn't posted for a few months. But I'm fine if he knows.

I read through most of the posts regarding our marriage and found that you were all very supportive and encouraged him to do the right thing by not getting intimately involved with OW. From his posts, I see he didn't tell you that he had been very involved in a singles life from the very beginning. But, protrayed himself to you folks as the lonely guy waiting for his wayward wife to return.

How do I even begin to heal...I have ordered some books and done quite a bit of reading online...I am desperate to stop the pain I'm feeling!!