Guess what. Now you have trouble with your relationship. You are building resentment. If you don't address this with her in a productive way - read communicate - you will end up finding a safety valve/escape hatch of your own. You may find yourself going down a path where you feel justified making the wrong choice yourself. You both have a right to be happy in your relationship. Don't sweep it under the rug because you got her back and that's what counted for so long. You told her you were ready to walk, now live up to that. Make this change happen. Also, remember that if you have changed there's no way she can be the same in the relationship. There may be more you can do without bringing up more drastic measures like counseling. Think about it.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
