Try to focus on the positives as much as possible. It is going to take time to feel comfortable and accept this new relationship with your W.

I mean for example, if you are going to an outdoor carnival and there is a chance for rain, you get to the carnival and are having a good time. Do you still worry about the chance of rain or do you cut loose and enjoy the moment? Focus on the positives!


"Our life is what our thoughts make it." Marcus Aurelius