sorry but i must have been locked out of my old thread.
w asked me if i wanted to go out to eat at her favorite resturant last night. went and had a good time. came home and i told her i was going to go for a walk. man what a great walk, we laughed and poked at each other, just a great walk. came home and w asked if i wanted to swim for a little bit because it was pretty hot outside. while swimming w was hanging all over me,(i couldnt believe it was happening)was a great swim. she at one point asked my daughter to go inside because she had to talk to me, i thought ott oh, whats to come next. well d would not go inside,(kids you know)so we swam alittle longer and got out. i went into our bedroom and started to change (w followed me)she sat on the bed and pulled me down to her. she started off by telling me she is really having a hard time moving out, part of her wants too and part of her dosent. i told her i understand and what ever choice she makes i support her. she then started telling me everything she would like me to give her in our r. no mind you she dosent open up to me at all, so this is a first. i kind of laughed a little bit and said, those are the same things i want from you, we both want the same thing, so why couldnt we give each other that and start rebuilding our r. she said that is what she really wants to do. she was really sorry for the way she has been treating me and dosent know why i have been putting up with her for this long. i told her three words, because i love you. she then began to cry and pulled me too her. i just stroked her hair and didnt say a word, which is a complete oppisite of me. she then looked me right in the eyes and told me she wants to stay home and work out our marriage, i almost fell off the bed, which she started laughing, and pulled me back too her. what a night. i will not expect anything right now i will just live in the moment, but she might be comming back to earth, this was all her talk, she brought it up and finnaly opened up to me. i hope we can start growing towards a better r then we ever had. what do you think about this?
