Thank you Cat03!!! Yes I was going to christian C and absolutely love her. After I started implementing changes is when XH started taking interest. In fact, at one point he asked for her # and actually called her and seen her a few times. $$$ became an issue for me $80/week and I can't afford it anymore. Thank you for your honesty with me and I think I will let the dinner next week be my turning point...one way or another. Can't keep being in limbo. Thanks again! Amy
