I'm trying to understand this stich, so he's been w/OW for 2yrs? and now he shows signs he wants you back?
First of all, I'm surprised that you've hanged on for so long, it almost seems like he has his cake and gets to eat it too, he has her and also gets to have good times with you, is this what's going on? seems to be working just fine for him. If things go this way (with tiny graces from XH now and then) do you still see yourself doing this, for lets say, another year?


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.