I do remember you and I am so glad to hear that things are looking up for you. My husband came home also....it takes time and patience to get it altogether...but it is worth it.....actually, when I look back at it now, it was all worth it as I grew up, I became closer to the Lord and my husband is healed....It will be worth it to you and to all that are going thru this very difficult time....
I have some advice though as far as OW calling, I decided to take the matter into my hands and changed my number to an unlisted number as even though husband told her not to cal ever again (in front of me)...she kept calling for a day or two....did not want it so changed the number.
Good luck to you in the restoration and to all of you out there.....