Lou wrote
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On her [BB's] part, she sees herself as short on ability and with limited resources so she feels she shouldn't have to give much. She also places a higher value on what she gives than most people do.



This is insightful, Lou. Kind of like some people, when you go out to lunch, never have money with them. They're broke so someone else should ALWAYS pay. They don't see that it's not fair. Their thinking is, "well if I don't have money or don't have money with me, then YOU should pay. YOU have money. I don't. But on those rare occasions where I DO pay, it should count for so much more, because I am usually broke."