I’m having a real hard time following your posts. You talk about “it” and “things” without once mentioning exactly what you mean. Your messages are very cryptic. This board is anonymous, why don’t you just come out and say what it is that bothers you. If you are talking about blow jobs, anal sex, whatever, then say so. I wonder if this is uncomfortable for you and if your communication with your wife is as cryptic as your posts? If so, then I would think she has a hard time reading you too.
