Lou/any one:
what does BTDT stand for? i searched and couldnt find....

to your reply:
thinking a bit more, ya know, ya kinda realize that the HD person can in many ways create this very situation (exhaustion/mental damage) to the LD person w/out ever realizing it.... i think i am - thats a scary thought for what that represents (dont ask, cause i cant explain yet )

in any event i have read a few more posts elsewhere (didnt get thru the book post yet above - hehe) and also agree w/ some HD perspectives where sometimes the relunctance creates an even more HD trait to show... again, something to control.

i am sure i will have more as time wears on....