Re Neanderthal I am going to have to learn the fine line of not expecting something in return or stop giving so much Neanderthal, I have been in your shoes. Lots of people think giving is the answer to a problem. sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't.
Too often one's giver gives out to the point of exhaustion and even mental damage.
I didn't just pull my older women mentality thing out of the air - hehe. as time wore on i felt she was the right one, things were going pretty well and we worked extremely well together BTDT too.
I wanted to say some of the things in your posts and their replies apply to me, so keep posting. Your thread is helping more people than just you.
