whaa - my brain hurts and to be honest, i like your response and i agree that its stronger/more confident but i can bet you, it will never spill out of my mouth that way. dont ask why - i am just a neanderthal
seriously - i do understand that some of what i am asking her gives her the same reactions that i am having towards doing what i have to do. i am willing to do my part - my problem is i dont have confidence in her doing her part... and i know that is noticable and feeds into it, but unless i get assurance that something will give, i cant say i am willing to do it. yes, i just created a stalemate - lol - god i stink at this - lmao
