in one post you said you have sex 3/4 x a week.

then you said... Because I have gotten tired of tryin to make moves and constantly being told no. It is rejection to me, makes me feel like i am not wanted

im sorta confused..

H: i dont understand why you are so uncomfortable about any of this?
W: I just am. why cant you accept that? (cryin and yellin now)
hmm whats with the crying and yellin?
H: because it wasnt a big issue before and now it is. i miss it and miss the variety it brings.
W: I dont know what to tell you then, but i cant have you around here if you are goin to continue to act this way and get upset everytime you get turned away
What is this? threats of sepereation? how does this affect you?
H: You turn me away everytime....
W: Because I dont want that. Why cant you appreciate what you have and get Im confused? doenst want what? You said you miss it? what is it?


Your wife has some resentments coming from something, and some behaviors that she knows will control the situation in her favor

still too vague andy...