NM, I just want to offer my two cents worth on the legal aspect of it, please follow through with OT's advice in this regard because, as she said, it is likely that you have a interest in the house and other property that you should pursue. I can't say whether leaving without pursuing these things will automatically deny you any rights to that, but it could make the battle much harder.
Otherwise, you seem to be doing well and I'm happy that your back to posting on a regular basis. Take care of yourself
Rob
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu