NM,

You mentioned you wish you could fine your dbusting book etc.

You can't dbust with an insane person. Trained Psychiatrists can't even cure people with personality disorders which it sounds like your SO has.

You are an amazing dbuster and an amawzing person and mother. I don't know how much more of this you can take.

Yeah, wasn't it an option to move back home for awhile? WHy not do that?

Even in your hard times you ask for me to pray for SO? You are soooo loving.