I've seen similar actions in my WAW...and I am also concerned like you are, and wrestling with what to do. If I intervene, I play into the hands of, "the controlling husband." If I do nothing, she will crash eventually...I just hope nothing serious happens. I worry about my kids as well...and the impact her behavior has on them. Just requires a lot of love and patience. I wish you luck...he does need professional help (good professioinal...because there are many bad ones out there, as I've learned).


My situation...

David
Me-46, Ex-46, S-15, S-17, divorced after 20 years, she filed June '06
Mediated divorce in Feb. 07
50/50 custody