What can I say....I really think that you know what's best for you in this situation and from all appearances, you seem to be handling just right. Its tough, I know, but you have got to do what is best for you and your children. SO seems a bit unstable and, quite frankly, just downright confused. I'm really sad for you that it has worked out this way, but judging from your character (at least to the extent that character can be evaluated via cyberspace, lol) you seem to be very strong.
Again, sorrry to see you in this place, but I think that in some ways, it has allowed you to finally come to terms with "what is" and allowed you to make rational decisions. Good luck in anything you do and make sure you keep us posted!
Rob
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
