HP, The way you describe it makes it sound so....well boring. On the other hand, I know well the routine you describe. I miss the passion, but not enough to get back on the roller coaster ride. We've settled into a 1-2x a week of vanilla sex (some weeks it is every day for several days, and then other times we go 2-3 weeks with nothin). I'm finding when it isn't there I'm not really missing it either.
I've been incredibly busy with work, putting in long hours. I suspect maybe that is part of it, don't know, don't really care. We are communicating decently, and spending more QT than in the past, but the za-za just isn't going zoom, KWIM?
GGB, realizing vanilla ain't so bad when the alternative is tabasco followed by intense heartburn.
