So good to hear from you. I'm so happy that things are (in general) going well. Be a little patient with yourself as far as your libido goes. It is probably there but just a little underground. You have been through a lot lately. Stress scales ask if any of the following have happened in the last 6mos/1year - death of a loved one, move, job change, marital problems, getting married or getting divorced, having a child and many other things. As you can see you have several of the most stressful items within the last 6mos/1year. The hair thing is a testament to this and so, I suspect is your libido.
I'll bet babypot is getting big. DD2 is almost potty trained and is getting moved to a big girl bed. I don't know if I can handle that.