Good to hear from you. Maybe there is some hormonal link between your recent relative LD and hair loss. My only sister who is LD also has problems with thinning hair and the HD rest of us have hair that is thick to the point of uncontrollable.
I get that "absence makes the heart grow fonder/jealousy" drive thing off my H sometimes too. For instance, he was grilling me the other night about just exactly where I was going to be for my monthly book club meeting and then he was all action when I got home. The perverse thing )and as I recall this is true of your H also) is that he is always trying to keep me at home although clearly he is more turned on by my absence. Sort of a variation of madonna/whore syndrome which might be called homebody/party girl syndrome.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
