hi...my H also left me for his job. he is gone all the time too traveling and going all over the USA. and i feel the same way,that he comes home to me it isnt exciting to him anymore with this new life he is living. i feel for you . i dont know what to do. he has been gone for 10 days now since he moved out to find himself and get some space and clear his head. i am not giving up but i am so hurt. we have been together for 34 years and married 28. i hope things will get better. i have to keep hoping. but it is so hard. Right now he is out of town for 3 weeks and havent heard from him much. this is so hard!