I have to agree with GH on this one. Yes what Muddle wrote sounds exactly what happened to me. I worked out of state only came home everyother weekend. Wife was unhappy with our marriage she started talking with her ex-fiance who is going through marital problems as well. Big surprises that they had an affair. Now that I'm back home wife and I aren't sleeping in the same bed but I do forgive. She still is talking via cell, email & IM to OM. But what can I do I did try the "I don't want you talking to him" routine didnt work. So I'm just GAL and trying to be friends with her.
