Quote: There were serious issues in our marriage to be sure, but the biggest reasons that the A happened, in my opinion, were due to temporary circumstances. I suspect that other sitches fall into this category as well.
I agree with this. My sitch was 50% temporary stuff and 50% long term issues. The problem I have with that article is that it even SAYS that temporary issues play a LARGE part in the affair but makes no mention of what happens when those issues are resolved other than to say that the family exausts all their energy trying to save the marriage, only to run out of energy. I think that is really short sighted and, again, seems to suggest that there is no hope for many of us. I simply refuse to believe that. Maybe I'm the silly one.
