Andy-I hurt so bad today. Adrian is being so distant and cold, almost mean. He acts like he wants nothing to do with me. How do I deal with this? How can a man who says he loves me act like this? This is how he treated me when he was in the A. I felt totally rejected by him. I know he is mad about the kids knowing he had contact with the OW, but he is taking it to the extreme. He probably wants me to get so frustrated that I throw him out. That's not going to happen although I am getting really sick of it fast. He is the most defensive person I know. If you hurt him, he will hurt you more. Childish I know, but he has always been that way. I keep wanting to just talk to him but he is totally not receptive to that now. He said I did not have to worry about him seeing the OW but he lied about the contact too. How do I know he is not lying about seeing her? I know I can't control him but his demenor is killing me. How should I act towards him? Rachael
