Andy-Do you and your wife ever go out? Like to a movie or to eat? Do you ever just hang out at home and TALK? Do you think she treats you as she would a good friend? I have no idea where I'm going with this-nowhere I guess, I just wanted to get a feel for how you guys interact, because unless I'm off base it does not sound like you have much of a relationship going-two sided that is. Maybe its just the way your posting today but I get a sense of a man who lives in a house full of people but is lonely. I wish she would see what she has in you. I know....I only know your side of the story, but the way you defend her I don't think you are predudice in favor of yourself. I'm wondering why she prefers being alone as opposed to seeking your company? I'm guessing your wondering that too. I gotta ask you Andy whatever it is your doing, is it working at all? Rachael