Very good answer JJ. Men just look at us sometimes in despair because they don't know what to do to fix it.(us) WEll-they can't. WE have to, and alot of the time we don't even know how. A hug would be all she would need is my guess,but most men don't think to do something that SIMPLE. IT shows you care without trying to get information out of her that a. she does not want to disclose or b. She is just in an mood BECAUSE. Just MHO, Rachael