When she seems to be in a pensive, down, tired, etc., mood, how comfortable would you be in going to her, not saying a word, and just give her a strong hug? Then just walk away, and leave her alone.

P.S. On second thought, ANS, screw whether you're comfortable with it or not, JUST DO IT, DAMMIT!!! If she asks you what that was for, say something like "just because....". No ILU, or any other stuff like that.

I have a strong feeling that if you do that a couple of times, without expecting any kind of response or reaction, she'll soon start approaching shortly after.

Do something different.

Experiment, and monitor results.


Last edited by Jamesjohn; 09/19/02 06:30 PM.
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