Cat,

I think you are expressing the feelings of frustration that come with just wanting all this to be over, and to just be loved and respected.

I don't know what to say, but can see my H and me interacting just like that if we get to couples counseling. I guess it just shows that rebuilding takes time even if we just want to be adored and loved by our H.

Does our patience ever get to end!!

wed

wed2alien

Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better