Sage is also a Toastmaster, Guilded Storyteller , Master Costumer, as well as an amatuer actor/director. cohorts. I can remember feeling so second class. I also walked behind and felt like a third wheel. I wanted him to spend more time w me and he, oh whatever. I finally got to where I didn't object to all the activity. I was useful for ideas, prop making, and sewing. The only time I was excluded from these friends was with the ow. He kept her his secret. What isn't kept in the light of day can become very unhealthy.
I can only admire you for being at a place in your developement where you can handle your wife having other gender friends. One day I hope to be there again. Not now though.
It's difficult, Andy, to know what to do. It sounds good that you and your wife are being cool about the friendship. You are being supportive of her independence and giving her space. Having to listen to mf whine about his 'house arrest' and his wife's comments may help your wife seek same gender friendships. Any potenials there????
You said that your wife's friendship w this guy is primarily behind the man's wife's back. What on earth will happen should she find out that he is direspecting her and blows up?
