Thanks for posting the links to your old threads. I'm currently rereading them. I say rereading 'cause although I read them a while back,time has passed and my perception has changed. Right now I'm being fascinated by all the stuff that Salamander offered you in 'Andy's story'.
I'm at the part in that thread where mf's wife was giving him a hard time. Salamander was encouraging you to make the environment at home 'good' so your wife would be drawn in your direction.
A year later you've posted that the mf's wife has vocalized that your wife and you aren't welcome in their home. Salamander 'saw' the future and he was so on it.