I am in the same boat, wife of 20 years tells me its over on sept 30 and now I find out she has a boyfriend, in fact an ex and she is in love with him. It hurts so much to find out you are no longer loved esp for a third time......I can't hardly stand it....i feel so sick and weak and she seems strong and happy.......how do you stop loving someone just like that...I sure can't seem to like she did.......god I am going to miss her and seeing her with om will send me over the edge......
