DNO, I so glad you posted. You're doing all the things you need to do in order to heal. Shopping is good for the soul sometimes, isn't it?
There "will" come a time when someone sparks your interest and I think you'll recognize whether he's a good man or not. Sometimes, I have "fond" memories of my X too, but I know I could never love or respect him again. Seems like you're getting to this point too. It's all part of the process and I'm so glad to see that you're not pining away for him but doing things for yourself.
