No snooping!! It's a rule that is very very hard to live by....but think it out. Is there any realistic info you can find that will HELP you feel any better?? Probably not....I accept that only pain can come from that. It'd be diffeerent MAYBE if your H acted as if all was well and you learned of OW. But you know your H is trying to figure out his life so backing off is going to have to happen if you want a future....plus who needs to know that kind of stuff???
All the experts here, and I am NOT one of them, say NO Snoooping and I have started to see why. Good luck, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016