Hi, I totally know what you mean by missing him and longing for the relationship. I am not divorced yet but he's got us well on our way. I didn't realize I wanted to save the marriage until it was too late, according to him. He's met someone else and he even thought it ok to tell the kids about her. I'm devastated and am having a hard time getting through the day. He does the same thing when he's around me he just doesn't talk to me. It is killing me and any suggestions anyone can make about how to cope, would be wonderful.