Andy-I am having a really hard time trusting my H. Its because the A was so long that I can;t bring myself to beleive he could cut it off just like that. I would really like to see his cell bills. I know he used to talk to her all the time befor enad after work and Lord knows when else. I want to ask him to see the cell phone bills so I know for a FACT that he is still not talking to her. He says hes not but he lied before I found out that he was having the A and when I asked him he said no. Now he says ther is no contact. How can I know if he is telling me the truth with out proof-you know how I am-I tend to obsess. If he could show me there has been no contact on his cell then it would help me a great deal to beleive him. I would get ahold of them myself but they are sent only to his office and I have tried to get on line, but you have to have a password. I jsut don;t want to be ina marriage whee my H is a liar and a cheat and me burying my head in the sand. SHould I ask him to see them? Rachael M
