Being responsible/finding comfort in your family
VERSUS
Lovingly detatching

To me they are not mutually exclusive.

In other words you can do both..it's what I tend to do anyways.

Dbing is not a set of guidelines that we are to follow slavishly..I believe you have said that many times in so many words.

I may have been that way in the beginning but not now..I just do my thing..just like you Andy.

In some ways you are a DB maverick in others you are not..who cares..you are Andy and you make us all think.

I thank you for that..for all the times you have given me a different slant on things another way to see it..you have influenced me to not give up.

Thanks

Duchess

[ August 22, 2002, 01:07 PM: Message edited by: Duchess ]