Hey tiel...a suggestion. The next time he asks, answer: ok, truth, I want YOU....to come into the bedroom all wrapped up in plastic wrap with a big bow and rabbit ears. And I want to unwrap you and make mad passionate love to you all night long.
HUMOR AND SEX...I doubt he will roll his eyes on that one. And if he is the one who never felt appreciated and loved for years....i think it might go a long way towards making him feel cared for, hmmm?
well it's been 15 months now and I want yo tell all of you that it is possible to bring your M back from the brink of D!!! My H is very loving and attentive to me these days. I got the nerve recently to tell him ILY one morning and he said it back. If I were to rate our M 12-15 months ago with 1 being D and 10 being bliss I'd have given us less than 1. Now I'd give us an 8. H talked the other day about going out for a romantic dinner with me soon. Don't ever stop believing it can happen! Lisa
Lisa, I read through your thread again and you are right. Our sits are very similar. Amazing isn't it. You seem further along in the dbing process than I am. But we are making progress I think. Very slowly. I have taken your advise and I will lay off the OW issue for now. But I must admit that I can get obsessed about it. I also do some snooping. But of course I don't always like what I find. But it keeps me informed of what's going on. I also think I can monitor the contact with OW to a certain extent. Am I wrong to do this? Anyway, it sounds like you and H are doing quite well and I am happy for you. Keep up the good work. Lyn
