well it's been 15 months now and I want yo tell all of you that it is possible to bring your M back from the brink of D!!! My H is very loving and attentive to me these days. I got the nerve recently to tell him ILY one morning and he said it back. If I were to rate our M 12-15 months ago with 1 being D and 10 being bliss I'd have given us less than 1. Now I'd give us an 8. H talked the other day about going out for a romantic dinner with me soon. Don't ever stop believing it can happen! Lisa