Hey tiel...a suggestion. The next time he asks, answer: ok, truth, I want YOU....to come into the bedroom all wrapped up in plastic wrap with a big bow and rabbit ears. And I want to unwrap you and make mad passionate love to you all night long.

HUMOR AND SEX...I doubt he will roll his eyes on that one. And if he is the one who never felt appreciated and loved for years....i think it might go a long way towards making him feel cared for, hmmm?