I did forget to add, my H isn't coming back. We are separated and he is having a good time being "free". We split time between and apartment and the house, one of us is at the house, while the other is in the apartment. It was crazy at first, but I am used to it. He likes not having to answer to anyone(exept the EA/OW, probably). Just like a teenager. I am not happy with that, he likes the limbo. But I am still going to be happy.
