Dotto, just show him what he'd be giving up if he leaves you. be nice and upbeat and FUN!! (You know, the way you were when he met you). He's definitely still attracted to you. This MLC is a bitch ain't it? We're doing pretty good here. He said 2 days ago he doesn't want a D. But is still unhappy in his job and wants to become a FT fire fighter. I hope he gets it, I want him to be happy! Have fun at the cottage. Let me know how it goes. lisa