Hi
I have always been over at the newcomers forum, been here since march, but don't seem to get any responses.Sounds like you are piecing it back, slowly.I would like to think that h and I are very slowly pieceing our 24 yr m back.Isn't the rule of thumb 1 month for every year of m??That sounds like forever. My old thread is in newcomers, Where do I go from here, and Help, need advice. I have no clue how to link them up.

i won't go into my sitch, unless someone wants to hear it, but h never left home, thought he might, we go to c, and she is wonderful, h says things there that he can't/won't say to me directly when we are alone. Said the feelings just are not there. This week it came out that some things I had said/accused, him of are the reason he is feeling this way, I said I can't change those words, but ask for forgiveness, he said nothing to that.

Sorry, I have been rambling on your post, I would like to hear more about your last 6 mos.
Take care
Sue